Congratulations on your Love and many Blessings on your Love Journey! Yes and a journey it can and will be, with many twist and turns in your pathway together. There are so many changes that will take place that it is good to try to be prepared for what lies ahead of you. I guess you can compare your relationship to your career choices and how much you are willing to invest in the education, money and time wise. In fact everything goes on hold when you focus on a career but why is it that your relationship will be devalued in the future based on the facts of relationship downfalls?

Relationship Value

How much is the value that you put on love and your feelings towards your `soul mate`? Would you take a course that prepares you for your love journey? Unfortunately most couples don`t even though they should, and it should be taugt first in the homes we were brought up in and set, by example, by our parents or guardians but unfortunately this isn`t a perfect world so the school should be the next best place for preparing young people for what is going to ultimately cost them so much time and money and energy on a daily basis. When you look at how much info is available for us to learn from on the internet it`s a wonder that we don`t have a perfect world, again it is a shame that we are prone to our character flaws from upbringing and first childhood examples, yes we are creatures of habit so if you want a better happier future please invest in the most important commodity of your whole future together, YOU.

Best Advice

I know you`ve heard it all before and your love is perfect and beautiful but please be realistic about your journey ahead and the mate you have chosen. Make the choices for all the right reasons unless you want to regret them and pass on the bad habits from the `blind love`syndrome. Remember if you think you can change that person to fit your expectations DUMMY UP! It wont happen and never does happen successfully, and as I have advised my own children, check out the parents of your mate and you will find the main ingredients of your mates characteristics and habits, some that can and will BITE, others hopefully BLESS.

Be truthful to yourselves about what you expect from your shared lives and lifestyles, mainly because once the aura wares off, and it will unless you continually refresh the reasons why you Loved each other so much in the beginning, and yes no matter whether you get married or not it really can be `till death do you part.`Don`t jump into your lives together without training and preparation for what`s ahead, otherwise the costs will be much more than just financial, believe me, I`m in my second marriage and it hasn`t been easy especially with a blended family and a little bit of a battle in authority and habits.

Best Outcome

Yes we will put a lot of efforts into our relationships, especially in the beginning in the courting stage but there will be reality kicking in right after marriage and then possibly when you have children. Again you will have many changes taking place as your responsibilities grow and your quality time starts to disappear and pretty soon careers change and roles too, meaning that transformation of character in each other changes too. I hope I`m not discouraging you but rather I hope to encourage you more in the direction of preparation and unconditional love and forgiveness, both of the latter you will have to study about somehow especially if you didn`t have that example in your parents/guardians examples.

No regrets when you are prepared for the worst which will in fact be your blessing for the future. I am not perfect in my example of love by far, but I do try and and I like to be able to say that my Tsimshian Love Treasures are truly a creative spiritual enhancement to your Love Journey, which is found in the origin of your love commitment and in the fact that your Life Crests are unified together in your personal designs. These Love Crests can remind you of each other and can be a blessing when you share your Story with someone who admires your Love Ring or Story Bracelet.

Any questions you have for me about what I specialize in, not perfect love relations by example, I am more than happy to respond and share. Thank you for your time and Bless You on your Love Journey